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In the last few weeks I have been in conversation with my partner and other couples who have been discussing fetishes and how it applies to the act or art of crossdressing. As shown below, a fetish is a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc. Based on that definition, it would seem that crossdressing could be a fetish if it was used primarily as a way to achieve a sexual release.
I do admit that there is sensuality to dressing as a woman. As a woman, I am allowed to be more open and allowed to be more tactile in my interactions. Men can give pats on the back, and hugs to each other as long as a shook hand acts as a barrier between the two bodies. And, wearing feminine undergarments and dresses does raise my awareness of the femininity I feel.
I do have feelings of sensuality because of the fact that I can stare fetish crossdressing the mirror and realize that I am passable fetish crossdressing a woman. But does having feelings of femininity because we are presenting ourselves head-to-toe as a woman mean that we are simply indulging in fetish behavior?
I dress up, my girlfriend and I go out to a party or a dinner engagement, we enjoy the food, music, and company, and then we return home. Some crossdressing men love the fantasy of being the sexy school girl, a cheerleader, a French maid, or even a s housewife complete with pearls.
While I certainly appreciate those crossdressing men and real women who can rock the aforementioned looks, my personal favorite fantasy centers on being a bride. For me, the thought of walking down an aisle at a ceremony as the bride in a flowing white satin dress with an ample train and a gauzy veil holds a lot of appeal.
My girlfriend stated that being a bride is reserved for a real woman. She said that women earned the right to be the bride.
That way, I would have something to remember the experience by. So, do I see the wedding dress itself as having magical powers? I simply believe it to denote a level of femininity that many crossdressers would like to experience. There are things that men cannot do.
From wearing sexy Halloween outfits to becoming a bride to being an expectant mother, there are some things that a man could never do or be. In some ways, we just want to find ourselves closer to the feminine ideal we have in our he.
I am many things. I am a life-long male-to-female crossdresser and author.
I hope my journey is of value for those who may need help to foster, support, and understand who they feel themselves to be. View all posts by livingwithcrossdressing.
Is this a fetish? And can it be a fetish for a man but not for a woman? Sure, I can wear lingerie under my dress for special occasions if I want to, and it feels sensuous — much as it would do for a woman. Workshops Terms. Share this: Twitter Facebook. Like this: Like Loading Author: livingwithcrossdressing I am many things. Prev Reading the Labels. Leave a Reply Cancel reply. Search for: Search. Loading Comments Required Name Required Website.Fetish crossdressing
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Sexual Fetishes and the Cross-dressers Dilemma